Tuesday, December 31, 2019

Top Books of the year (no re-reads included).


I read 115 books this year. Of that 115, 26 were rereads. Why do I reread? Well in some cases it’s because a new book in a series has come out after a few years and so, to remember where it left off, I’ll reread the series or the last couple of books, it just depends. Also, I reread certain books at night, in bed, while waiting for my sleeping concoction to take me away. I read something I already know so that it doesn’t keep me up. Honestly, I read each Harry Potter book and the Hunger Games Series, every year. FYI: A new book is coming out from Suzanne Collins in 2020, related to the Hunger Games. Finally, I reread for book club.  Sometimes, a book I read years ago is finally an available book at the library and I do try to choose books for book club that are available in 2 out of 3 formats from the library. I do a lot of research on this.
Now, On to my favorite books of the year:
Fiction:
1.       This Tender Land by William Kent Krueger - Just a beautiful book really. I couldn't put it down. I wanted to turn back around and read it again. I will. Eventually

2.       A Woman Is No Man by Etaf Rum - I read this book because of #ReadWithJenna and came to find out that Etaf Rum is an NC State Grad (Go Wolfpack!). She also runs a book and coffee shop in Rocky Mount, NC called Books and Beans  I wanted to make this Number 1 and it would have been if not for This Tender Land.  How do we learn about other cultures, religions? By reading books like this! This book is on my list of books to read for book club next year. Thus, a reread in 2020.

3.       Kingdom of Ash by Sarah J. Maas - For Fantasy lovers - This is the seventh and last book in The Throne of Glass Series. This book is THAT fantasy, with Fae folk, shape shifters, and more types of fantastical beings with superpowers. Not gonna lie, it also has some hot romances going on. I was in shock when I put it down not even knowing where to go. I didn't know what to read that would ever jog me out of the fog I'd been in. It was that good. Thankfully, I read it at the beginning of the year and was able to take a quick break. I probably dove in and out of some books before finally finding a new read. 

4.       The Gown by Jennifer Robson - Not sure what I expected but it wasn't this. And I liked it! 

5.       Daisy Jones & The Six by Taylor Jenkins Reid - This book recommendation came from Reese Witherspoons book club, Hello Sunshine. Solid book. I loved the way it was written, like interviews with rock stars. Quick read despite the page count.

6.       Small Great Things by Jodi Picoult - A book club attendee mentioned some Jodi Picoult. I remembered that when this one came out I had a hard time getting it from the library. I finally got it and was amazed. Another eye opener. 

7.       The Silent Patient by Alex Michaelides - Every blog I encountered, every book site/place I went to was talking about this book. As a "follower" I took the bait and I'm glad I did.  Great suspense read. 

8.       The Nickel Boys by Colson Whitehead - I think I liked this better than The Underground Railroad. While not a "true" story, it is based on the real story of a reform school in Florida. I am no longer amazed at the horrors of our country. This was a tear jerker.  

9.       Ask Again, Yes by Mary Beth Keane -  Another book that appeared everywhere over the internet and for good reason. Really great story telling. 

10.   Mrs. Everything by Jennifer Weiner - I've read a few JW novels but a coworker was reading this one and said I should give it a try. I did.  I enjoyed this a lot better than some others that I've started. 
Non-Fiction:
1.       The Daily Stoic: The Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance,and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday -  I needed to find some perspective this year and this book helped greatly. I enjoyed waking up every day to read a new thought. 

2.       The Good Neighbor: The Life and Work of FredRogers by Maxwell King - Name dropping here but Fred Rogers spoke at my college graduation in 1996 and he was awesome. I'll never forget it just like I'll never forget watching his show when I was younger. 

3.       The Stranger in the Woods: The ExtraordinaryStory of the Last True Hermit by Michael Finkel - I never knew we had real true hermits until I read this book. As someone who oftentimes just wants to chuck it all and get away from civilized life I found this entertaining and sad. 

4.       The Moment of Lift by Melinda Gates - Powerful words and relevant. 

5.       Bad Blood: Secrets and Lies in a Silicon ValleyStartup by John Carreyou - If you want to make nothing out of nothing, read this book. Seriously. I still don't understand how so many famous and powerful people got duped. Well, I do see how in the beginning but at the end, no..no...no. 

6.       We Were Eight Years in Power: An AmericanTragedy by Ta-Nehisi Coates -  I like Ta-Nehisi and the way he writes. It's from the soul and from the mind and from life. This is a good intro to his writing. I cannot wait to read his novel, The Water Dancer, on tap for 2020.

7.       Maid: Hard Work, Low Pay, and a Mother’s Will toSurvive by Stephanie Land - Not gonna lie, I thought about becoming a maid for awhile. I kind of like cleaning but then realized, I hate cleaning bathrooms. Nope. Not gonna do it. I'm glad I didn't as it appears to be a lot harder than it looks. I don't have kids but can't imagine having to work like this while trying to raise children.  Way to go! 

8.       Lab Girl by Hope Jahren - Another book I couldn't seem to get away from found me in 2019. After a poll this became one of my book club's non-fiction reads for the year. I enjoyed it and found myself utterly enjoying a topic I knew nothing about and it involved...SCIENCE! 

9.       The Fifth Risk by Michael Lewis - My Favorite "political" read this year. I don't like to read them often but if I do, I want something that goes fast but is informative and this was it.  


10.   My Reading Life by Pat Conroy - A book about books and the man who loves reading and writing them. Beautiful writing. I've actually never ready anything else by him but I intend to. 


See you next year! 2020 looks to be another great reading year for me.  I hope it is for you too. 

Friday, February 1, 2019

February 1, 2018...Life is Good

I decided to start blogging again this year but not on the 1st of January, oh no. Give myself some time, figure out what I want to do, where I want to go.  So here I am on February 1 doing this thing. I've finished my taxes and opened up a glorious bottle of wine. It's one of my favorites and I knew I'd need a favorite tonight.
I've finished doing my taxes and didn't even finish one glass.  Damn HR Block is good.  I don't owe anything either this year so, that's good.

Now, I'm going to finish Victoria Aveyard's Red Queen Series this weekend since nothing else is really going on around here.

February is my first favorite month of the year. Why? Because I was born in February and that makes it a great month. 

Off to paint my nails, or take a bath, or something. Stay warm peeps. Spring is getting closer every day!

Saturday, April 7, 2018

Review: Not My Father's Son

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My rating: 5 of 5 stars



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Review: The Color Purple

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My rating: 5 of 5 stars



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Review: The Thirteenth Tale

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My rating: 4 of 5 stars



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Review: The Immortalists

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My rating: 4 of 5 stars



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Ready Player One: The Movie - NO SPOILERS I PROMISE

Let's face it, the book was better than the movie. However, I will concede that if you didn't read the book you would probably really enjoy the movie. In fact, you'd probably really like it.  I liked it, but I didn't love it.  I loved the book.

As an 80s child (I graduated high school in 1990) this book brought back so many memories. Things I had forgotten came back with force; video games, movies and music. As a side note, I bought the War Games movie on DVD right after reading this book.  I have most of the 80s music and video games. 

I went to this movie with my favorite movie critic (Trevor) and another voracious reader (Brittany). 
We had all read the book but felt we were far enough removed from the book that we would appreciate the movie. I last read it in 2016 and I tried really hard not to read this again when I heard about the movie.  I remember the 2 Deathly Hallows movies (that still hurts). I wasn't going to go through that again.

Trevor said it wasn't Spielberg enough and it could have been better.  I'll believe him because he knows Spielberg movies and I don't.  I wasn't sure exactly how they were going to do the virtual world vs. reality and I thought it was okay. I'm not well versed on avatars so I thought the avatar's were pretty well done. Art3mis was probably the closest to how I imagined the characters. He agreed it wasn't real close to the book but that it was okay on it's own. It was.

Brittany, who wasn't even around in the 80s (she's a youngun) liked it. She was the most positive about it. Maybe because she wasn't like me, searching for those youthful reminders.

And therein lies my overall disappointment but I realize that getting licenses for some of the 80s things that were mentioned in the book may have been the hangup. I had also heard/read that Spielberg didn't want to make this movie all about him (because he is featured pretty heavily in the book!). This is why, at the end of the movie, I was okay with it. I will definitely see it again. I'll probably buy the Blu-Ray.


Happy National Beer Day!



***I went to listen to Ernest Cline speak when Armada came out in Paperback (yes, I geeked out over an author!) and I fell a bit in love with him. His appearance at Flyleaf in Chapel Hill in April 2016 was spectacular. The whole time I was thinking, he gets me. He really gets me. Too bad he had his fiancee with him.***










By the way, I'm so 80s that most of the spaces after my periods are double spaced ;)


Thursday, June 1, 2017

Books and Movies

I read. That's what I do. And I do a lot of it. Every now and then I do enjoy a good movie but I'm rarely tempted to see a movie adapted from a book I've read. However, I've stumbled upon a discovery so grand that now, it's quite possible, I will see more movies adapted from books.

My discovery is this:  If the author of the book writes the screenplay I love it! Of course, it has to be a book I actually like.  I'm not just going to go see every movie adaptation of every book I read. Some books were not very good. I wouldn't want to pay money and time to see it again!

Here are my recommendations so far, where I read the book and then, saw the movie and the author of the book wrote the screenplay:

The Perks of Being a Wallflower - Stephen Chbosky wrote the book in 1999. The movie was released in 2012 and I thought it was excellent! Stephen Chbosky wrote the screenplay.

Room - Emma Donoghue wrote the book in 2010. The movie was released in 2015 and again, awesome! Brie Larson even won the Best Actress award for that movie. Emma Donoghue wrote the screenplay.

Me Before You - Jojo Moyes wrote the book in 2012. The movie was released in 2016. I cried in the book. I cried watching the movie at the same parts.  I rarely cry. And this was funny and sad crying. It was amazing! Jojo Moyes wrote the screenplay.

And they are listed as the only writers for the screenplay so, I'm a bit iffy about Ready Player One next year.  I loved the book but I don't see Ernest Cline listed as the "1st" screenwriter. I don't want to hate that movie.

But now I know what to look for when I see a book that I liked being released as a movie, I check to see who wrote the screenplay.  This will help me in the future I am sure.

Review: Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban

Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban by J.K. Rowling
My rating: 5 of 5 stars



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Quite possibly my favorite Harry Potter book!  Counts as my re-read for the 2017 Book Riot Read Harder Challenge.

Review: Going Solo: The Extraordinary Rise and Surprising Appeal of Living Alone

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My rating: 4 of 5 stars



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I don't feel so bad now.

I love living alone. I didn't automatically choose it years ago but now that I'm here, at 45, living on my own, I relish it! As I've aged, I've learned to endure peace at any opportunity. I don't always turn the TV on and have gone weeks not turning it on. I sit and read in silence and I'm Okay with it.  I love the silence. When you have a job like mine where you are constantly inundated with phone calls and conversations around the cube you work in, silence at home, is golden.

For the most part, I do what I want, when I want. I've even started eating out more often (by myself) and going to movies (by myself).

In some ways living alone has changed me. I do get highly sensitive around noise and crowds.Sometimes, I have to just run away when it gets to be too overwhelming.

I do worry about getting even older though. I have no children, no spouse, no "other family" to help me out if or when anything should happen to me. My dog? Not much help there. Hah!

At this point in my life, I doubt it changes. I'm not seeking to change my situation either.

I love this solo life!

Tuesday, May 23, 2017

Review: Throne of Glass

Throne of Glass Throne of Glass by Sarah J. Maas
My rating: 5 of 5 stars



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Review: This Is Where It Ends

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My rating: 3 of 5 stars



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Review: Born a Crime: Stories From a South African Childhood

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My rating: 5 of 5 stars



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Review: The Fate of the Tearling

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My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I liked this! It wasn't god awful ginormous. Nor did it go on forever. Yes, yes, everything was tied up there at the end but isn't that how it's supposed to be? I didn't want this to go on forever and I'm glad the author did what she did.

I do have a few questions because some things weren't answered but, I'll make my own determinations there.

Good, fast read. I do not understand why I had to wait for months to get this from the library (early reviews that I read concerned me so I didn't want to shell out the $$$ for it until I had read it).  I read this book in 2 days.

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Wednesday, May 3, 2017

Bridging the Divide Book Club - Our Kids: The American Dream in Crisis

I went to a new book club tonight. Crazy, I know. But when I heard about this one, it really spoke to me and I knew that I had to be a part of it.  The first book was Robert Putnam's Our Kids: The American Dream in Crisis.  Honestly, as of today I have not finished this book but I like what I am reading so far.

The book touches on a few things that interest me though because I grew up all over the maps he draws.  I had that family that did everything together until I was 12.  We had family dinner time.  I don't recall watching TV. We read. Or played games. OR talked! Of course there were extra curricular activities but my parents were INVOLVED.

But then divorce happened. We were raised by a single parent. There were serious tough times and yet, I succeeded.  I went to college. I own a home. I own a car. I have a 401k.

I will say this though: As a country, we divide ourselves. We create our own division and I can't figure out why.

Sunday, April 23, 2017

Coffee, Rain & Books

I have a T-shirt that says that and I wore it all day yesterday.

It rained today.

Also, I didn't wake up until 1:30 today.  Not because I was tired or hungover or anything like that.  It seemed as though every  time I did actually "wake up" I could hear it pouring down rain.  Can't walk a dog in that mess. Especially not my dog. He's a diva dog!

So at 1:30, I finally jumped out of bed and proceeded to make a pot of coffee. I fed the dog, then took him outside where he peed but he wasn't going to do much more than that.  He turned right around and went back up the steps towards home, and no rain.

I sat down with my first cup of coffee and got back to reading Strangers In Their Own Land: Anger and Mourning on the American Right by Arlie Russell Hochschild. A deeply depressing book I might add.  Perfect for a rainy day like today!

Bleecker thought it was a perfect day for us to do nothing more than drink coffee, listen to the rain, read books and snuggle on the couch.

Wednesday, April 19, 2017

Review: I'll Be Damned: How My Young and Restless Life Led Me to America's #1 Daytime Drama

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My rating: 2 of 5 stars



So, I picked this up because I used to enjoy watching Y&R back in the day. I liked Eric Braeden (didn't know that wasn't his *real* name!) on that show. He did a great job with the character when I was watching. But then, life got too busy to watch daytime dramas.

I enjoyed the first part of the book, his early years, where he came from and how he came to America. Yes, he's an immigrant!

But once I got 2/3 of the way through, I started getting bored. The name dropping was incredible and "I get" that he's an actor and he's met a lot of people but a lot of times, it was just a listing of people with no reason why he met them or under what circumstances.

I understand that being on a daytime drama (or soap opera) isn't considered the greatest gig in the acting world and so maybe he has to throw out some interesting names so that people know he knows actors outside the daytime drama world.

Heck, the guy was in one of the biggest movies ever, Titanic. Glad to know that one scene with him was in just one take. Holy moly.

I should probably NOT read the memoirs of actors.

**I DNF'ed this book...at 80% (Per my Kindle) because I just didn't give a damn anymore.

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Review: Black Ice

Black Ice Black Ice by Valmore James
My rating: 4 of 5 stars



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If you are a fan of old school hockey and liked the "fighting" aspect before "goons" took over, then this book is for you.  If you think anyone should be able to play hockey, this book is for you.  It is not overly melodious but it is to the point. It's heavy hitting but with reasons.  I thoroughly enjoyed this and I am not a big fan of memoirs/autobiographies.

Tuesday, March 7, 2017

Review: Welcome to Braggsville

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My rating: 4 of 5 stars



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Review: How To Be A Woman

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My rating: 3 of 5 stars

I find her interesting. I think you have to "get" British humor in order to actually like this. I listened to the audio version of this and loved listening to her "read" her book. I quite liked her!

Oh and she made a lot of sense too!

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